Jem saw that I had a huge people-pleasing tendency and never put myself first and how that actually hurts my relationships. I took a baby step and learned to trust my partner with my needs, and instead of feeling like a burden, I felt more loved than ever. I’m still working on vocalizing my needs, but this first step has made me feel more confident.”
when Jem connected me with my past selves, it became so crystal clear that I have been harsh with them and with my own flaws. there was so much pent-up hurt and sadness that I broke down even though I’ve never cried in front of my friends. but I also felt – thank you Jem for healing me and helping me to reframe my flaws into something meaningful :’)”